Boundaries don't cross

Boundaries are a very important part of life, and because they are tricky to implement, are usually something we tend to ignore.  Boundary setting within relationships is an essential aspect of our mental wellbeing, involving emotional maturity and assertive communication.  In this article let’s explore what setting boundaries mean and how we can succeed in…

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Counselling and Therapy

Counselling, do I need it? So the obvious question is what can a Counsellor do for me? If I’m not at breaking point why would I see and spend money on going to a Counsellor? There are many ways to respond to these questions. From my personal perspective, the answer to what can a Counsellor…

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Shame blame and guilt are feelings which generally cause unhappiness to the person experiencing them. We have all experienced them at some time in our lives. If they are ongoing for us, what can we do about them? Let’s briefly examine what their origins are. Firstly, Shame. Shame is an internal feeling which is devastating…

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Have you heard this term before?  Is a Locus related to a locust?  Well…. no!  A locus in this instance is where you feel the control of your life and your decision making comes from.  Is it from you or is it from someone or something else? If a person tends towards an internal locus…

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